First, I want to brag that one of my postcards I donated to the FFAC booth that will be at the Houston show this year is posted up on Virginia’s preview page. I was very excited when she let me know. I get a real complex over my work (not feeling good enough, etc), but I am working my way out little by little. I think I get too obsessed with the construction, to the point of feeling less than. Slap my face, snap out of it!
This is the first time someone other than myself has posted my work.
Next… I am sad that my Women for Women sister has changed (women are sponsored for a year, then the sponsor receives a new sister for sponsoring). I couldn’t remember the time of year that I joined (July or August), so I knew it was coming.
In Nazlije’s exit interview/graduation report, I was very proud that it was reported that she made improvements of self confidence; and gaining a new support group. Also, her economic situation has improved and knowledge of her rights. Nothing in her report shows situations having gotten worse. She also stated she would like her sponsor (me) to be given her address for writing. Might I need a crash course in Albanian?
(anyone out there know Albanian to translate for me?)
My new sister is nearly 20 years older than I am, and the mother of 8 children. Two of which are still school age, 14 total living in her household. She is also in Kosovo. She is a widow, and because of a checked box, I am assuming she lost her husband during the war.
While I sit in my cozy home (typing on my laptop, while the TV is on, and a fan is blowing because I am having a hotflash, with some fresh and filtered flavored water beside me), and read the profile on my new sister, I am simply humbled at my luck of the draw to have been born in the USA. When I think about how lucky I am, and how I take so much of it for granted, it really makes me feel ashamed.
To my new sister Hava, I would like to say welcome as my sister and I look forward to our correspondence this year. You are already in my prayers.
Tags: Quilting, Thinkings and Thoughts, Women For Women writings by Solje
No Comments »